Hello! It is possible to select up to 3 sets on PronounDB. You'll need to pick they/them as first set, and then he/him as your second set.

I hope this helps! 🩷

Edit: permissions have been made more narrow in version 0.11.3. Thanks again for the feedback!
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Thanks for your feedback. The broad permissions were set as an anticipation of some requested features, like Mastodon integration, which don't have a specific set of URLs I can embed into the extension permissions.

I have been considering for a while moving away from this which I completely understand is a dangerous permission to give. I've opened an issue on the GitHub repository if you wish to track progress on this issue: https://github.com/cyyynthia/pronoundb.org/issues/78

I hope to have it changed soon!